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'Why do boys always try to get away from me?'Dr LoveMumbaiSep 25, 2017, 07:21 IST
I don't know why I am always rejected by boys. They are always the ones who break up with me. No guy ever takes my name in front of his female friends. I feel as if people are ashamed of me. I seriously need your help.
— Afreen P
It's quite possible that you simply haven't found the right kind of boy to be with. There is absolutely no reason for you to beat yourself up over any perceived slights, because you inadvertently give these boys the power to hurt you. I suggest you learn to focus on yourself, and what you believe in, rather than allow the opinions of people who simply don't matter to get to you.
I have been in a relationship with this girl for two years now. Over the past couple of months though, she has been ignoring me. Whenever I ask her to meet, she comes up with excuses. Even when we meet after a long period, she doesn't seem excited to meet me. I know she loves me a lot, but we belong to different castes, so she knows we can never marry. This may be why she is ignoring me. What can I do to change this?
— Rishi S
I'm not sure how to respond to this. You admit there is no future for either of you, on account of a caste system that you choose to follow, but you expect her to be excited about seeing you nonetheless. If you love her and want her in your life, you must ask yourself what you are willing and able to do to make that happen. Without this, there really is no reason for her to want to meet you at all, is there? If she is ignoring you, maybe it's just her way of trying to get you to understand that she doesn't see a future with you either. Only the two of you can change this narrative, if you choose to do so.
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